Understanding Adult Survivors of Dysfunctional Families: Helping to Heal the Hurts of the Past

Abstract

This resource from WLCFS outlines 14 behavioral and emotional characteristics commonly found in adults who grew up in dysfunctional families, including those affected by alcoholism, mental illness, abuse, or compulsive behaviors. Drawing on Janet Woititz’s work and clinical experience, the document explores patterns such as difficulty with intimacy, impulsivity, low self-esteem, and distorted views of God and relationships. Each trait is explained with practical insights and suggestions for Christian caregivers, counselors, and pastors. The guide emphasizes the importance of empathy, spiritual support, and structured intervention, offering tips for building trust, encouraging emotional expression, and fostering healing through faith. It concludes with a call to patience and prayer, affirming that recovery is possible and that Christian helpers play a vital role in guiding survivors toward healthier lives and relationships.

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